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Baptizing Children is a Gift

2/24/2019

 
Why baptize children? Why not wait until they are older and can decide freely for themselves? It is a serious question, but it can conceal a deceit. In procreating a child and giving him life, do parents first ask for his permission? Convinced that life is an immense gift, they rightly assume that one day the child will be grateful for it. A person is not asked for permission to be given a gift, and baptism is essentially this: the gift of life given to us by the merits of Christ through the power of the Holy Spirit. Of course, all this assumes that the parents themselves are believers and have the intention to help the child develop the gift of faith. The Church acknowledges their decisive competency in this area and does not want a child to be baptized against their will.
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There are increasingly more people in our society who for different reasons have not been baptized as children. There is the risk that they will grow up and make no decision, one way or another. Parents are no longer concerned about it because they now think that it is not their duty; the children because they have other things to think about.  I think these reasons (and you can no doubt add to this list) are only symptomatic of the core cause: lack of trust in the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit enters the child that we baptize, making Christian virtues grow in that child, so that as he or she develops, they will blossom.  We should always give children the opportunity to have the Holy Spirit dwell inside them so that He will guide them during life.

In order to address this situation, committed members of the Church should share with those who need to hear it, the effect the Holy Spirit has had in their lives.  To have been baptized in the Holy Spirit is to have been immersed in the ocean of divine love.  Witness to that love in your interactions with the parents in your life who, for whatever reason, have deferred the baptism of their child.  It could very well be the case that they have not experienced the love of God in their own life, and thus do not know what they are missing out on, and preventing their child from experiencing for themselves.

Trusting the Holy Spirit and stepping up to give witness with you,

David J. Conrad

P.S. I offer formation for parents in their preparation for the baptism of their child.  Our next formation session is Thursday, April 11 at 6:30 P.M.

The Golden Rule

2/24/2019

 
This Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time we hear explicit instructions from Jesus about how to behave with one another: “Love your enemies; do good to those who hate you; pray for those who mistreat you…” The whole list of instructions boils down to what is called ‘The Golden Rule.’  “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Simple and thought-provoking—this should stop us in our tracks as we open our mouths or act in ways that are selfish, angry, vengeful, mean-spirited and intolerant. Jesus goes on to remind us to stop judging and condemning one another—that all we do will come back to us—one way or another.

​As we near the introspective season of Lent, we might decide that for Lent (and forever) we will all try to live by the golden rule—that would be challenging—but worth real consideration. We are reminded by St. Paul today that though we are like Adam—earthly—we also bear the image of the heavenly one—Jesus. I guess the question that we need ask is one we have all heard before: “What would Jesus Do?” Just some thoughts pre-Lent. Keep singing!                                                                                                                                 

Music Notes and News
At times some of you may have noticed me scrambling around in the music area before mass begins trying to get sound set and working. St. Aidan’s has been “nursing” this aged sound system for quite a while. We have certainly gotten our money and use out of it—it is as old as the church building (31 years old—1988—same age as my son), and some components came over from the “pre” St. Aidan church! Fr. Kevin and the Stewardship Commission have decided now is the time to replace this system and update with a digital and integrated new sound system—for there is nothing worse than not being able to hear the Word (proclaimed or sung). Installation starts the week of February 25th, and we ask for patience as we adjust and learn how to serve our liturgy in sound. Congratulations! This is a blessing for all of us!

You may have noticed a few new faces among our music ensembles—we are always hoping that those with vocal or instrumental talent may hear the call to service in the Music Ministry, and step forward. I know some of you out there may have considered joining us—please come and speak with me. I am always looking for choir members—most especially basses, altos, and children for the Youth Choir. If you feel called, come and see me.

​We ask that you keep us in prayer as we head toward Lent/Holy Week/Easter—please pray for our health and spirits as we work hard to serve you with the sung Word of God. Thanks!

Elizabeth Dyc

"Blessed are they who hope in the Lord."

2/18/2019

 
Today is the Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time. The refrain from this week end’s Responsorial Psalm says it all in terms of (all) the readings for this Sixth Sunday of Ordinary Time: “Blessed are they who hope in God.” This is a phrase, a reminder—sung or spoken—that may help in any of our desperate, unkind, sorry or sad moments in our lives.

​The Old Testament reading from the Book of the Prophet Jeremiah is utterly descriptive about people who trust in human beings, rather than the Lord. He describes the former people as “a barren bush, enjoying no change of season, standing in lava waste, a salt and empty earth.” Compare that to the latter—people who put their trust in God—“Blessed are you…like a tree planted beside the waters, not fearing the heat, its leaves stay green, in draught it shows no distress, but still bears fruit.” This is a very clear depiction from a desert people who liken God to life-giving water!

In his First Letter to the Corinthians St. Paul tells us how our faith is not in vain. Since Christ was raised from the dead, so shall we be too—blessed are we who hope in the Lord! According to St. Luke’s Gospel, our reward will be great in heaven, so rejoice and be glad! Do so because blessed are you poor, you hungry, you marginalized, and you who weep—that would be all of us…

When we put our trust and hope in the Lord, in God, we will not be spiritually thirsty and emotionally barren; instead we will be replete in the Lord’s abiding and abundant mercy, contented and gratified in his love, no matter what happens in our lives. The psalm response reflects the basic criterion for all three readings—it is the image, the paradigm and the example for the message we are meant to understand: “Blessed are they who hope in the Lord.” May we believe what we sing, and sing what we believe!

In a few short weeks, the season of Lent will be upon us (before we know it. Changes in our Liturgy and in our worship environment will take place that will reflect this new penitential season. Our sung acclamations change, and we will fast from the Gloria and all alleluias; we sing the Penitential rite (Lord have mercy). We will strive for the desert experience of Lent—no green plants, serious and sparse (yet rich) symbolism, all the vestments change to Lenten purple—Lent should make us “thirsty” for God.

Today, though, we sing: “Rejoice and be glad.” We hear the “Blesseds” of the Beatitudes—but today in the Gospel of Luke we also hear the “Woes.” As we head toward Lent, here is an idea: rather than give up something, maybe the challenge should be to do something positive for others. We, ourselves, need to be a blessing, rather than woe, for those around us.  This is living the attitude of the Beatitudes we hear today; and living in the hope of growing closer to God. “Blessed are they who hope in God.” Food for thought…


Keep singing!

​Elizabeth Dyc

Just Show Up

2/11/2019

 
As I prepare to write this article for the Fifth Sunday of Ordinary Time, I find myself thinking about conversion and change—something Fr. Kevin spoke about in his homily this past weekend. He talked about how the anger of the people toward Jesus and Jeremiah was because of the prophetic call to change our hearts—and change, acceptance of the new, and reconciliation are so hard for all of us. It makes many people angry-like those who wanted to throw Jesus from the cliff.

​I watched the Super Bowl with my husband Jim, yesterday—something I never would have done a few short years ago—it just goes to show how much one can change…when they really want to, or for a good reason… I never could stand (or understand) football—now I can appreciate the expertise and commitment of the athletes’ work and abilities—the practice it takes to be some of the best at what they do. (If only I could get Jim to love opera as much as I do…)

Today is about the call of conversion. We hear Isaiah receive his call from God and his response is: “Here I am, send me!” We hear the Gospel story in which Jesus invites his disciples to become “fishers of men.” They leave all things they have and follow Him. In hearing these two readings we have the opportunity to compare our own response to the call of God. I think the start of answering any call is all about just showing up: a few years ago I made myself sit with my husband and watch a game I wasn’t interested in, started to learn about the game, enjoyed the company and ended up having a good time and looking forward to the next game we would share.

I guess the point of conversion and change is that the first step is to just show up.

Every day we are given the opportunity to get in the “game” of our faith—by just showing up! You might be surprised to find the game interesting, enjoy sharing it with others and actually end up looking forward to the next one. This is real conversion and change. As you listen to the “call” story today, consider it your personal ticket to the “game”—our faith—and you might be surprised by how much is won by simply showing up. Our faith and our response is the super bowl of salvation, and it may just be about showing up and then getting into—participating—in the game. See you in Church!

Keep singing!

Elizabeth Dyc


All Human Life Is a Gift

2/4/2019

 
“O Wisdom, O holy Word of God, you govern all creation with your strong yet gentle care.  Come and show your people the way to salvation.”

​Substance abuse; the fear and despair that leads to suicide; abortion and the nearby presence of Planned Parenthood; abandonment of elders.

This array of follies; these assaults to our dignity, are dispiriting, but we have on our side the Gospel and our prayers.  There is always hope in Christ!  Hope is the desire of something with the expectation of attaining it.  Through our prayers, witness, and practical endeavors supporting life, our desires can lead to attaining better protection of all human life - and the promotion of its dignity - from conception to natural death.

What follows is a list of resources that you can draw on and share with others as you support life.  Of your charity, do what you can to support these organizations in their efforts.

David J. Conrad

Livonia Save Our Youth Coalition
We have a mission to educate and empower the community regarding the health and safety of our young people with a focus on alcohol and other drugs. The coalition includes parents, teens, educators, health care workers, law enforcement, the faith community, and substance abuse professionals. All interested community members are welcome to join us. http://www.livoniasaveouryouth.org

1st Way Life Center
1st Way pregnancy service centers are located throughout the United States where any girl or woman with an unplanned pregnancy may find help as near as her telephone. It is a person-to-person operation based on the belief that no problem is so great that it warrants destruction of innocent life. http://1stwaylifecenter.com

Mary's Mantle
Mary’s Mantle is a residential program rooted in the Catholic faith. The home is designed to accommodate four expectant mothers at a time who are at least eighteen years old, regardless of their religious affiliation. Mary’s Mantle is a safe haven where expectant mothers can fully realize their potential as children of a loving God. http://marysmantle.net

Suicide Awareness Voices of Education
The mission of SAVE is to prevent suicide through public awareness and education, reduce stigma and serve as a resource to those touched by suicide.  https://save.org

Text 741741
When you are feeling depressed or suicidal, a crisis worker will text you back immediately and continue to text with you! Many people, especially younger people, don't like talking on the phone and would feel much more comfortable texting, the idea is for you to talk (text) with some one who will listen, understand and not judge you.  This is a free service for anyone. https://www.crisistextline.org

The Jerome Lejeune Foundation USA
The mission of the Jérôme Lejeune Foundation USA is to provide research, care, and advocacy for people with genetic intellectual disabilities. This is achieved by conducting, promoting, and funding therapeutically oriented research; by assisting in the development of healthcare services; and by serving as an advocate in a spirit of respect for the dignity of all human persons. https://lejeunefoundation.org

Senior Citizen Services
Catholic Charities of Southeast Michigan. https://ccsem.org/senior-citizen-services/

In Love We Choose to Live

2/1/2019

 
Today, this Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, we hear in both the First Reading from the Book of the Prophet Jeremiah and the Gospel of Luke, about how difficult it is to be a prophet. Both Jeremiah and Jesus suffer at the hands of the people closest to them—the Communities in which they live and preach and teach.

​The Gospel of Luke today begins with the same words of Jesus that ended last week’s Gospel reading: “Today this scripture passage is fulfilled in your hearing.” The story picks up with their amazement at His Words, and yet as we know, “familiarity breeds contempt” for Jesus’ neighbors: “Isn’t this the son of Joseph?” No one likes to hear the truth if it doesn’t match with their own vision of how things are. No matter how inspired His words and actions are, they don’t want to change; people don’t want to change and admit that change is needed and necessary. They look for reasons and justifications not to change and not to listen: Jesus is just the son of the local carpenter.

The Second Reading from the First Letter of St. Paul to the Corinthians is about the way to live that Christ brings to us all. It is a plan, a diagram—a recipe--for living a life in Christ. Every action and all our speech must be expressed as love, since “love never fails.” This familiar reading (often read at weddings), is a blue print for how to be like Jesus. “Love is patient, love is kind…” If we were all to follow these directions of St. Paul, what a different world it would be: no polarization, no division, no greed and selfishness, no marginalization and tribalism and racism—a life lived in which you would treat others as you would expect to be treated—a life of love in action. Hard to envision, but one can hope (and pray).

The people of the synagogue chose to rise up in rage at Jesus, and they drive Him from the town and lead Him to the brow of the hill in order to kill Him. Before long, we know that the Sanhedrin will also rise up and lead Jesus to Pilate, and then to the top of the hill named Calvary. We see deadly choices both times—people who do not choose for love—but who choose for evil, for their personal glory, for their own selfish perspective.

Jesus Himself ultimately makes a choice, too: He chooses death, He accepts His fate and the path for our salvation on a cross in order to save us from ourselves! By His sacrifice He chooses love to drive away hatred and evil, selfishness and sin. He chooses to be raised up so that we will also be raised on the last day—and in love asks the Father to forgive us.

In our lives we also have a choice. (Actually, we are our choices.) Do we choose to live the “recipe” of love? Or do we take Jesus to the brow of the hill yet again? My advice would be the same as St. Paul’s: Set Your Heart on the Higher Gifts! Remember We Have Been Told that by our Baptism it is In Love We Choose to Live! So Be Not Afraid to Stand Up for Jesus!

Keep singing!

Elizabeth Dyc

    Authors

    David J. Conrad, M.A. Theology. Our Director of Faith Formation.

    Paul Pyrkosz. Our Youth Minister & Bookkeeper.

    ​Elizabeth Dyc. Our Director of Music Ministry.

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St. Aidan Catholic Church
17500 Farmington Rd. 
Livonia, MI 48152
Phone: 734-425-5950
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